The Viagra Myth
The Surprising Impact On Love And Relationships

1. Edition September 2003
224 Pages, Softcover
Wiley & Sons Ltd
In The Viagra Myth Dr. Abraham Morgentaler (a practicing
urologist on the faculty of Harvard Medical School) shows us that
while Viagra has proved enormously helpful to many men, it has also
uncovered previously ignored aspects of identity and authenticity
in sexuality and relationships. Some men, for example, may fear
telling their partner they are using Viagra, yet still struggle
with the hope of being loved for their true self. Women who
discover their partner has resorted to a secret sexual enhancer may
complain, "I thought it was me who turned you on . . ." Viagra may
improve a man's sexual abilities, but there may also be a profound
cost involved.
If you or your partner is using or considering Viagra, or even if
you are only wondered what it might be like to have a better sex
life, this book is essential reading. It will provide insight and
instruction about the reality of quick-fix solutions, sexuality,
personal growth, and meaningful relationships.
Acknowledgments.
Introduction.
Chapter 1: Viagra And The Perfect Cure.
Chapter 2: The Viagra Edge: Is Harder Better?
Chapter 3: Performance Anxiety and Viagra.
Chapter 4: Viagra And Desire.
Chapter 5: Viagra And Premature Ejaculation.
Chapter 6: When Viagra Doesn't Work.
Chapter 7: The Viagra Myth In Gay Relationships.
Chapter 8: Viagra and Prostate Cancer.
Frequently Asked Questions About Viagra.
Epilogue: The Future Of The Viagra Myth.
"...reveals for the first time the drug's popularity is waning as it leaves a trail of broken relationships and shattered expectations in its wake." (The Independent, 27 August 2003)
"...warns that the drug may be killing passion rather than igniting it." (The New Zealand Herald, 28 August 2003)
"...argues that the drug's side effects are not so much medical as emotional." (The Independent, 29 August 2003)
Viagra can help many men, asserts urologist Morgentaler (Harvard Medical Sch.; The Male Body). But its cure-all-penises reputation is only a myth. It is most effective for erectile dysfunction caused by performance anxiety, less so for premature ejaculation and for medically caused problems. Viagra cannot supply desire, guarantee partner satisfaction, or rescue a relationship aground on different issues. Moreover, secret use of the drug can raise issues of trust and honesty with a partner. Yet there are effective treatments for when Viagra fails-injections, implants, vacuum devices, and couple therapy. Morgentaler's needed corrective is readable and well organized, with case histories and summaries - plus a chapter on gay relationships. Unfortunately, it lacks a resource section, guidelines for finding a doctor/therapist, and illustrations. A good general work on sexual dysfunction is Lawrence Hakim's The Couple's Disease, and Robert Butler and Myrna Lewis's The New Love and Sex After 60 is also highly recommended. Morgentaler's books is a valuable if imperfect addition to collections where Viagra books circulate frequently. (Index not seen.) --Martha Cornog, Philadelphia (Library Journal, October 1, 2003)